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Post by nightwing on Apr 26, 2005 21:07:19 GMT -5
This board still exists. Feel free to ask us for advice on anything! And I do mean anything. Anyways, have a good time!
-SD
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Post by Chris Steffen on May 1, 2005 5:06:16 GMT -5
Well there's this girl I know... she kinda has this thing for me, but I don't know how to tell her that I'm not interested. Should I tell her that I'm kind of not in the market for the living dead, or that I just want to be friends? I kinda need help with this kinda fast... She's invited me over for dinner this thursday, and I'm worried about who we're eating. I mean what we're eating. And how.
Any advice?
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Post by Malkavian on May 2, 2005 23:28:57 GMT -5
God, my friend Mike had this same problem.
Here's what he did. He was nice at first, then he came out and said he had no intention of being in a relationship with her. She still stalks him. Some people are like that, magnetic and the like.
Here's my advice. Don't make the same mistake. The only way to keep her from going after you(besides casting turn undead on her)would be to be blunt. I mean cruelly blunt. So much so that it's unlike you. You could try being nice though. I was cruelly blunt in dealing with someone once and I regret it all the time, but there's more backstory there. If I didn't want anything to do with her from the beginning, I'd have been blunt then and been cursed with no regrets. But anyway, I digress.
Do what you think is right. Never hurts to try something new...just so long as you aren't/weren't previously attached to her.
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Post by nightwing on May 3, 2005 6:54:16 GMT -5
I'd usually say let her down easy, but after hearing what Milk had to say about his friend, I'd go for the blunt path as well.
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Post by Rista on May 3, 2005 16:31:44 GMT -5
Be up front. Let her know right off that you have no intention of dating her, that you would rather keep her as a good friend than as a girlfriend.
If it doesn't click, it doesn't click. Most girls should be mature enough to accept that, eh?
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Post by Malkavian on May 8, 2005 22:12:22 GMT -5
Speak for yourself
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Post by Fang on May 23, 2005 23:02:41 GMT -5
And, if somehow all this avoidance or bluntness doesn't work I'd use a mace of disruption, most deffinatly. If you don't have one of those handy do what I do when I'm not looking forward to eating something (in your case ghoulash) Wear anything with a pocket. Line said pockets with zip locks baggies or something similiar. Insert food slyly. Then if your mean you can serve it up to some unsuspecting fool. ... No wonder I don't have any dates
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Rista
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Post by Rista on May 24, 2005 7:46:59 GMT -5
wtf?
just don't let her kiss you and everything will be alright.
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Post by Fang on May 28, 2005 20:56:26 GMT -5
Kiss? Oh.. right.. the whole charm thing.. but I thought it was with the eyes...
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Post by Malkavian on May 31, 2005 2:29:40 GMT -5
If you wanna know if he loves you so it's in his KISS.
That's how the song goes.
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Post by Chris Steffen on Mar 10, 2006 16:25:37 GMT -5
So would a baseball bat count as blunt?
Because I've got a couple.
If anyone was wondering, the date went okay. Ended up eating Bruce Springstein and drinking some wine.
Living Dead Girl has nice taste!
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